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Lessons from Stay-at-Home Moms

April 11, 2022

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Being a stay-at-home mom is hard work! I knew that being constantly responsible for Baby M and putting my career on hold would be a challenge, but I deeply underestimated the sacrifice I was making.

I feel incredibly blessed to be able to stay home with my daughter – especially when she was a tiny infant. It was a decision that my husband and I discussed before we were even married. There was no question that we wanted me to be home with the baby for the first year or two.

We’ve put off a lot of “big” expenses and I definitely have given up a portion of my sanity, but it’s all been worth it.

Keep reading to hear tips from fellow stay-at-home moms!

“Having kids—the responsibility of rearing good, kind, ethical, responsible human beings—is the biggest job anyone can embark on.”

Maria Shriver

What’s the hardest part about being a stay-at-home mom?

For me, the hardest part about being a stay-at-home mom is not having the structure of a workday on top of not having my own income.

I’m sure you already know that being a stay-at-home mom is work. I know that I’m personally exhausted at the end of the day, even if it sometimes feels like I didn’t actually do anything.

Sometimes I have to remind myself of that a nanny or housekeeper would get paid for what I’m doing for free.

I have feverous re-read this article from Investopedia, “How Much Is a Stay-at-Home Parent Worth?” (click for reference):

According to 2019 data from Salary.com, if you are a stay-at-home parent and paid for your services, you would be looking at a median annual salary of $178,201. Why? Because many stay-at-home parents work around the clock. If you have young children, work can often mean nighttime feedings, greeting early morning risers, and late-night meal prep.

Investopedia, How Much Is a Stay-at-Home Parent Worth?

Is being a stay-at-home mom worth it?

If you’re looking for an answer to this, you won’t find one.

One reason is that the answer varies based on your partner’s income, your home life, your child’s needs, the economy, and your personality. You will find plenty of working moms who wish to be home, and moms who spend naptime dreaming of being back at the office.

We can’t choose all paths, right? So, there’s always going to be a sacrifice. I know I have put my career on hold for time with my daughter, time that I know I won’t get back. I don’t know how that will affect my long-term earning power or work life.
Is it worth it? I believe that happy, secure parents = happy, secure baby, so whatever gets you there is the right path to walk.

Tips from stay-at-home moms

Here’s my tip:

Do whatever you want while baby is napping. Whatever you want. Whether that’s a nap or scrolling on Instagram or eating raw cookie dough while writing a blog post (like I am right now). Save the chores and checklists for when baby is up. They are fine entertaining themselves or observing you!

O, Leaf and Steel

The best tip I have for stay-at-home moms is… Be you and be gentle with you! There is no stay-at-home mold, so trying to put yourself into one or creating one, may be be very frustrating. Being as true to yourself is what will make this season enjoyable. So if your an artist at heart, paint with you littles. If you are a chef at heart, whip it up in the kitchen with kiddos. If you are a napper at heart. Create a schedule that includes spa like vibes and cucumber water and lay-it-down! Just remember this a hard job, but mama you are right for the job and if someone doesn’t like what or how you do it… tell them to stay hydrated and mind their business.

Leah, Those Who Can’t Vlog, Blog (itsleahb.wordpress.com)

“As a stay-at-home mom, I have had to learn many things, but the most important thing I have learned is that I am enough. My son doesn’t care how I look, how much money I make, or what my past looks like-he only cares about me being there for him. Being the best mom I can be, every day, is more than enough for him.”

Jaimie, The Naptime Blogger (thenaptimeblogger.com)

Don’t read into the motherhood help books/websites too much. It will cause you more stress than you already can handle in daily life. Give yourself grace and roll with it day by day.

Michelle, Mrs. Michelle Gomez (mrsmichellegomez.com)

Becoming a stay-at-home mom for myself was completely new and eye opening when the pandemic first happened. Two things I learned to work on for myself that I would suggest to any stay-at-home mom is to not pressure yourself to complete every single task and to make sure to reach out to other moms or friends that will help you maintain your sense of self. We become so focused on doing and going for our family and household that we don’t do the simple things that make us happy and feel like the individual we are. 

Nicole, The Expressive Mom (theexpressivemom.com)


Do you have a tip for other stay-at-home moms?

Were you a stay-at-home parent or plan on becoming one?

Let me know below!

O.

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The Best Books about Bugs for Babies

April 6, 2022

Whether your kid is the one playing with words in the garden or screams when they see a spider, they’re sure to love these bug themed books!

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Spring is the best time to introduce these bug books.

Insects and bugs make excellent preschool topics for spring!

I know when I was a preschool teacher, I loved teaching my kids about the parts of an ant. They enjoyed learning about silly spiders and sweet lady bugs too!

Another fun idea for spring is to read these books outside and then go on a bug hunt in the garden!

The Best Butterfly Books for Babies

Why should you read to your baby everyday?

Read to your little one every day. The easiest way to do this is to tack on reading to another routine, like reading before bed, before mealtimes, or after a nap.

See this answer from Zero to Three (click for reference):

Reading together when babies are as young as 4 months old increases the chances that parents continue reading to babies as they get older. Beginning early is important because the roots of language are developing in a baby’s brain even before he can talk! The more words your baby hears over time, the more words he learns.

Zero to Three, “Read Early and Often“

Should you read to your baby when pregnant?

Yes! I began reading to my daughter when I was pregnant, even though I felt pretty silly doing it.

See this explanation from the Cleveland Public Library (click for reference):

Additional research suggests that third-trimester babies not only pick up on language patterns, but after birth, they can recognize words they first heard in the womb. Though the extent to which babies in utero can learn has yet to be determined, prenatal reading is nonetheless a wonderful way to kick-start healthy brain development.   

Cleveland Public Library, “Born to Read: Reading to Your Baby in the Womb”

Ten Little Ladybugs by Melanie Gerth

The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle

Little Love Bug: Finger Puppet Book by Chronicle Books

Hello, Bugs! (Black and White Sparklers) by Smriti Prasadam

Some Bugs by Angela DiTerlizzi

Walter’s Wonderful Web: A First Book About Shapes by Tim Hopgood

Backyard Bugs – Touch and Feel Board Book by Little Hippo Books

Hello, Garden Bugs: A High-Contrast Book by Julissa Mora

Mrs. Peanuckle’s Bug Alphabet by Jessie Ford

The Honeybee by Kirsten Hall

You’re My Little Cuddle Bug by Nicola Edwards


Do you read to your baby everyday?

Do you know any of the books on this list?

Let me know below!

O.

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  • Sunday Night Routine for a Successful Week
  • 7 Things I Do Every Day as a Stay at Home Mom
  • How to Survive Your 1-Year-Old’s First Blood Test
  • Bunny Decor for Under $20 to Decorate with This Spring

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Bunny Decor for Under $20 to Decorate with This Spring

April 6, 2022

Spring is finally here!

If you love to decorate your house with fun bunny rabbits then check out this list of bunny decor for under $20!

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Why are rabbits a symbol of Easter?

See this response from Reader’s Digest (click for reference):

While there isn’t any historical documentation that explains how a rabbit became the “furry” face of Easter, the most obvious connection may be the calendar. April showers not only bring spring flowers, but the birth of baby rabbits. Both springtime and bunnies are iconic symbols of birth and renewal. “Rabbits (originally hares) are longstanding fertility symbols associated with the arrival of spring because they are so prolific and give birth as soon as the weather warms,” notes Diane Shane Fruchtman, Assistant Professor of Religion at Rutgers University.

Reader’s Digest, “The Easter Bunny’s Origins: The Interesting History Behind this Easter Symbol“

Is March too Early to Decorate for Spring?

No! March isn’t too early to decorate for spring. In fact, some people decorate for spring in February, after putting away Valentine’s Day decor.

What are some symbols of spring?

Some symbols of spring are

  • rabbits
  • eggs
  • lambs
  • butterflies
  • flowers
  • farm animals
  • birds
  • gardening

Should I decorate with rabbits for spring?

Yes! Rabbits are the quintessential symbol of spring!

So, here is a selection of bunny decor under $20!


Wooden Golden Easter Bunny Figurines, Small Decorative Easter Bunny Statue Set of 2, Vintage Easter Rabbit Table Home Decoration

Cast Iron Rabbit Bunny Standing

Rustic Wood Easter Bunny Silhouette with Pom Pom Tail Hanging Front Door Decor Sign

Faromily Vintage Farmhouse Bunny Throw Pillow Covers Retro Farm Rabbit Feed Home Décor Throw Pillow Case Cushion Cover 18″ X 18″ Set of 2 (Vintage Rabbit)

2PCS Easter Farmhouse Rustic Bunnies, Stuffed Fabric Bunny Spring Decor, Farmhouse Pastel Bunny Decor for Easter Basket Bowl Fillers Rabbit Collections (Black)

Nature Vibe Easter Bunny Decor Set of 3 Natural Rabbit Statue Decorations Cute Sisal Bunny Figurines for Easter Home Decor or Seasonal Parties

LA JOLIE MUSE Cupcake Stand Ceramic Dessert Plates for Snacks and Cookies, Bunny Candy Dish Gift, 8.3 Inch White, Home Decorations Gift

Small Golden Bunny Figurine Jewelry Ring Tray Decorative Easter Rabbit Statue Ornament Animal Sculpture Home Table Decor (Standing Bunny)

3 PCS Needle Felted Baby Bunny, Easter Decor, Handmade Cottontail Rabbit Animal Doll, DIY Needle Felting Supply Wool

Easter Bunny Decoration Flocking Rabbit Garden Statue, Faux Moss Resin Animal Figurines for Baskets Table Window Yard and Home Décor


Do you decorate for spring?

Do you love bunny decor too?

Let me know below!

O.

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  • March in Review
  • 15 Spring Farmhouse Decor Items Under $15
  • The Best Butterfly Books for Babies
  • Easter Traditions to Start with Your Baby or Toddler
  • Vintage Style Easter Decor

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15 Spring Farmhouse Decor Items Under $15

March 31, 2022

Here are 15 spring farmhouse decor items you can find for under $15! Spring decor is all about flowers, bunnies, eggs, and new life!

This post contains affiliate links. This means that I may make a small commission off of products that are purchased through these links, at no cost to you. You can read more about this process here.

“Spring is when you feel like whistling even with a shoe full of slush.”

Doug Larson

When is the first day of spring 2022?

Spring 2022 begins on Sunday, March 20th and ends on Tuesday, June 21st.

Is February too early to decorate for spring?

Some people may ask if February is too early to decorate for spring. No, February isn’t too early to decorate for spring! Adding spring decor is a nice way to break up the grayness of winter. You can really decorate anytime you want.

Is November to Early to Decorate for Christmas?


Read on to see the best farmhouse decor items for spring!

Farmhouse Stuffed Fabric Rustic Bunnies (Set of 2)

Mini Wooden Houses

Hello Spring Placemat Set of 4, 18″x12″

Farmhouse Decor Spring Wall Decor Fabric Floral Bicycle Sign Wood Rustic Home Decor Indoor Outdoor Wall Plaque Hanging Art Gift 11″ X 16″ – Spring in The Air

Flower Fairy Lights – Pink Cherry Blossoms

2 Pack Artificial Eucalyptus Garland (Set of 2)

Primitives by Kathy Slat String Art Box Sign, 6″ x 6″, “Bee Happy”

Faux Lavender Bundle

5 Piece Honey Dipper with Faux Honey Mini Bee Tiered Tray Decor Spring Summer Farmhouse Kitchen Display

Spring Pillow Covers 18×18 Set of 2 Farmhouse Buffalo Plaid Truck Floral Decorative Throw Pillow Covers for Home Decor

Stonebriar Small Country Rustic Galvanized Metal Pitcher with Handle, 5 inch

Table Runner with Tassels for Home Dining Table 100% Cotton Linen 14″x72″

2 Piece Farmhouse Wooden Picket Fence Tiered Tray

Welcome Sign For Front Door Porch Wreaths With Lights 13”

Lemon Wooden Bead Garland with Jute Plaid Tassels and Lemon Slice (34”), Handmade 


How will you be decorating this spring?

Do you think February is too early to decorate for spring?

Let me know below!

O.

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The Best Butterfly Books for Babies

March 25, 2022

Maybe it’s their colorful wings, sweet nature, or magical transformation from a caterpillar, but butterflies have always captivated little kids!

We’ve gathered some of the best butterfly themed books for babies and toddlers!

Read more

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Life with My 8-Week-Old Vizsla Puppy

March 23, 2022

I survived! I survived my first week with an 8-week-old Vizsla puppy. I’m exhausted, covered in bites, and filled with absolute love and joy for my little guy. His name is Bodhi and we got him a week ago! He is 9 weeks tomorrow and a total mush.

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Bodhi has spent the week exploring, snuggling, and learning some ground rules! He already knows his name and “sit”. He is working on “leave it”, which I must imagine is pretty difficult for a new creature in a new world.

How Much Does it Cost to Raise a Puppy? (In the First Month)

As I’m writing this, I’m proud to announce that he has had no accidents in the house today! I’m so proud of him. House training has not been as hard as I thought it would be! When he goes in the house it’s usually our fault.

I have to say that a lot of help has come from the r/puppy101 and r/dogtraining subreddits, as well as anecdotal advice from friends! I am a learn-as-I-go mom, and I’m finding I’m that way with the dog too. I think I have a good perspective on what’s really important. However, I have been more intentional about managing his behaviors due to everyone’s safety. A 12 lb puppy jumping up on you is innocuous, a 55 lb dog is not…

It’s been a very long week, friends. Here are some answers to questions I had before getting my Vizsla pup!

vizlsa puppy running - Life with My 8-Week-Old Vizsla Puppy

Why did we choose a vizsla as our family dog?

You can read all about why Vizslas make great family dogs here: 5 Reasons We Chose a Vizsla as Our Family Dog

Basically, we chose a Vizsla because of their activity level, loyalty, trainability, and gentle temperament. They were also the perfect size!

What’s it like having a puppy and a toddler?

I’ll be honest – it’s exhausting. I am bone tired at the end of the day.

We set up this playpen for my daughter so that she can have her own space in the kitchen away from him. It’s huge! Most importantly, it can resist our puppy’s snapping jaws and sharp claws.

It’s a lot of chewed up toys, removing choking hazards, and reheating cups of coffee.

Making sure two little creatures (who have no impulse control) don’t hurt themselves is a full time job.

I wanted to add an update as my Vizsla puppy approaches his 6 month birthday:

These pups are not for the faint of heart. My Bodhi is so naughty! He counter-surfs, eats everything in sight, and greets the world mouth-first. It has been a lot keeping a toddler and a puppy safe.

I have no problem saying that I wish I had waited until my daughter was older to get a puppy- I don’t think the breed matters. Puppies require constant supervision and dedication, which we are of course giving him. I’m sure I will feel differently in the future, once we turn this corner and he mellows out a little bit.But, from someone who is in it, let me say that having a puppy and a toddler is not the best idea.

Do Vizslas shed?

Vizslas have no undercoat, which means that they do best in warmer climates. Alternatively, they could use a coat in the winter, like our boy does. They are incredibly soft, with ears like velvet. The lack of undercoat makes them easier to clean and bathe when dirty. We have found that our Vizsla only needs a quick run down with a rubber brush once a week, and baths only when necessary.

It was my understanding that Vizlsas are low-shedding dogs. Do they shed less than a Golden or a Lab? Sure. But they are still shedding dogs, and our house is now blessed with thousands of tiny red hairs that infiltrate even the most remote corners of our space.

Here is my car after maybe 3 rides post-car wash. Needless to say, I will be getting leather seats in my next car (and more space so I can get another V!).

How much exercise does a Vizsla puppy need?

So, I was told 5 minutes for every month of age. So a two month old would need 10 minutes of exercise.

I don’t think this is true for Vizslas!

We have been doing 10 minutes of exercise per wake window (see more on puppy wake windows below).

Some examples of the exercise we have been doing is fetch, using a rope toy, or this frisbee. We have a fenced in yard that is large enough for him to romp around in. 

Today, we took him for his first walk on the road, but kept it to 5 minutes.

You can over exercise a puppy, so be sure to talk to your vet about how much your dog needs!

What is crate training?

Crate training is simply the act of using a crate to train your dog. Here is an explanation from the AKC (click for reference):

Although many dog owners may feel guilty for crate training their canine companion, enclosed spaces create a shelter for your dog to rest and relax. In fact, dogs instinctively seek small spaces to create protective shelters for themselves. Crates are useful training tools for puppies, safe havens for senior dogs, and lifesavers for emergencies.

AKC, “Crate Training Benefits: Why A Crate Is Great for You and Your Dog“

And here is the crate we use:

What’s in our 8-week-old puppy’s crate?

Right now, the only things in our 8-week-old puppy’s crate are a blanket, soft stuffed animal, and a NylaBone. We do cover the crate to add a cozy feel, as well as using the crate divider.

I always remove his collar before putting him in the crate. I want to avoid any freak accidents.

What size crate does a Vizsla need?

We went with the 42″ wire crate (with divider) for our male Vizsla.

How often does our Vizsla puppy get up in the middle of the night?

I had heard horror stories of puppy parents having to get up every 2-3 hours with their little one and let me tell you, this is the part of puppyhood I was dreading the most. I already got up with my baby multiple times a night for over a year, and I wasn’t excited to do that again.

Bodhi only wakes once a night. I don’t even want to write that, out of fear of jinxing it. We take him out for the last time at around 10, he wakes up at 2, and then is up for good at 6:30/7am.

How we got our 8-week-old Vizsla to sleep in the crate.

Bodhi sleeps in a crate in our family room. The first few days, I put a few treats in there and left the door open. I never put him in it. If he happened to hop in, I would reward him and tell him “good crate”. I also added a few of his toys and favorite bones.

I eventually ended up putting him in there while my daughter and I played in another room. He cried for a few minutes and fell asleep! 

The first 5-6 nights my husband or I would sleep with him on the couch. Now that he is sleeping in the crate, I sleep on the couch next to him. I’m hoping I’ll be able to go back to bed this week!

life with my

What are enforced naps and how do I use them in training my puppy?

This is something I saw on Reddit and it has saved me! Enforced naps are just what they sound like – you are scheduling and enforcing a nap for your pup. The golden rule is 2 hours of rest after every 1 hour of playtime.

I usually set an hour timer and once it goes off we start “winding down” with some treats, pets, gentle words. Then I lead him into the crate and reward him with a treat. He usually whines for a few minutes, but eventually plops down and is out cold soon after.

Interested in taking a training course? See below!

How we got our 8-week-old Vizsla to stop biting.

Bodhi would start nipping uncontrollably and it seemed like nothing was calming him down. No amount of redirection or praise would stop his chompers from clamping down on my feet. We are definitely teaching him to use a “soft mouth” by whimpering and turning away when he bites too hard. This is how they would learn to bite gently from other dogs in the wild. 

When he would go on his little frenzies, there was no soft mouth or learning involved!

Our issue was Bodhi was overtired. He just couldn’t help himself. Enforced naps are what stopped him from biting (as opposed to “mouthing”, a behavior all dogs engage in).

What I would have done differently.

If I could do this again, I would have definitely prepared more meals and planned more “me time”. It really does feel like having two toddlers right now.

If I could do it over I would have started with more toys and a stronger gate.

18 Month Update

Bodhi is a little over 18 months and a crushing 75lb of muscle! He still needs to work on his leash walking and excited jumping at house guests. He is pretty lazy for a Vizsla, doing short bursts of zoomies throughout the day and then settling in on the couch.

My biggest complaints are the shedding (didn’t think it would be this much) and just maneuvering his sheer size!

We love our Vizsla and can’t seem to remember what life was like before him (did I just leave food on the counter?). He’s our toddlers best friend and is deeply loyal, goofy, and sweet.

big brown dog's head resting in open book

Have you ever raised a puppy? Did you find it challenging?

What would you have done differently if you could restart puppyhood?

Let me know below!

O.

More from Leaf and Steel:
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  • Easter Traditions to Start with Your Baby or Toddler
  • Vintage Style Easter Decor
  • How to Take Care of Your Baby When You’re Sick

If you are interested in guest posting on Leaf and Steel, please check out our Guest Post page for guidelines!

8 week old vizsla puppy
8 week old vizsla puppy
8 week old vizsla puppy
8 week old vizsla puppy
8 week old vizsla puppy
8 week old vizsla puppy

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Vintage Style Easter Decor

March 19, 2022

Here are some vintage and vintage-style Easter decor items to use this year! Bunnies are a super cute way to bring playfulness and nature into your home.

Easter is right around the corner! What better way to decorate than with these adorable vintage style decor items!

Links in this post are LTK affiliate links. This means that I may make a small commission off of products that are purchased through these links, at no cost to you.

Do you decorate with bunnies? Or decorate for spring? Is your style more vintage or contemporary?

Do you celebrate Easter?

Let me know below!

O.

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  • The Best Easter Books for Babies
  • The Best Spring Books for Babies

If you are interested in guest posting on Leaf and Steel, please check out our Guest Post page for guidelines!

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The Best Farm Books for Babies

March 18, 2022

Moo! Cluck! Baa! If you’re looking for farm themed books to entertain and educate your baby, look no further. Reading is an excellent way to improve your baby’s language skills, boost their confidence, and increase their vocabulary.

So, this list is a perfect way to foster a love of reading with familiar animal faces.

We’ve collected the best books on all things cow, chicken, barn, and farm!

This post contains affiliate links. This means that I may make a small commission off of products that are purchased through these links, at no cost to you. You can read more about this process here.

“Life on a farm is a school of patience; you can’t hurry the crops or make an ox in two days.”

Henri Alain

What constitutes as a farm animal?

According to Livestocking.com (click for reference):

Farm animals are animals raised or kept primarily for consumption, to generate income and to help with some farm operations. Another name for them is Livestock. The difference between farm animals (FA) and wild animals is that farm animals live among men while wild animals live in the wild, forest, jungle, etc.

Livestocking.com, “Farm Animals | Definition, Examples & Characteristics”

What kind of animals live on a farm?

The most common farm animals are:

  • Chickens
  • Cows
  • Sheep
  • Pigs
  • Horses
  • Goats
  • Ducks
  • Donkeys
  • Rabbits

Other farm animals include:

  • Barn cats
  • Llamas
  • Geese
  • Turkey
  • Peacocks (did you know they make excellent watchdogs?)

What are the best farm themed books for babies?

Here are the best farm books for babies and toddlers!

On the Farm by Roger Priddy is Baby M’s favorite. I have it memorized and probably will know it by heart until the day I die…

If you don’t feel like buying them, check out your local library!

First 100 Padded: First Farm Words by Roger Priddy

Friends on The Farm by Kate & Milo

On The Farm by Little Hippo Books

Baby Touch and Feel: Farm by DK

Looky Looky Little One On the Farm: A Sweet, Interactive Seek and Find Adventure for Babies and Toddlers by Sandra Magsamen

Old Macdonald Had a Farm (Finger Puppet Book) by Cottage Door Press

Cows Can Moo! Can You?: All About Farms (Cat in the Hat’s Learning Library) by Bonnie Worth

On the Farm by Roger Priddy

Farm Animals: A Touch and Feel Book by Little Hippo Books

Night Night Farm (Night Night Books) by Roger Priddy

The Wonky Donkey by Craig Smith

I’ll Love You Till the Cows Come Home by Kathryn Cristaldi


So, there are the best farm themed books for babies and toddlers!

Does your little one enjoy learning about farms?

Are you familiar with any of the books on this list?
Let me know below!

O.


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If you are interested in guest posting on Leaf and Steel, please check out our Guest Post page for guidelines!

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How I Breastfed for Over a Year

March 17, 2022

I breastfed for 13 months and I couldn’t be more proud of myself! It was something that I decided I wanted to do even before pregnancy. Fed is best, of course, but I knew I wanted the bond and endless benefits that come from nursing.

Keep reading to see how I was able to breastfeed my baby for over a year!

Obviously, the first thing that comes to mind when prioritizing breastfeeding is all the amazing benefits for mama and baby. Here are some of those benefits from the CDC website (click for reference):

benefits of breastfeeding from the CDC

How I breastfed my baby for over a year:

I Kept Telling Myself I Could Quit

I told myself I could quit – tomorrow. I just had to make it one more day! It’s simple, but it got me through the first really tough weeks.

I built a freezer stash for my own sanity.

I began pumping almost immediately after my milk came in. I used this pump and these bags to store my milk! I would lay the bags down flat in my freezer at first, that way they would defrost faster.

Pumping and storing milk allowed my husband to give her a bottle and it gave me a little freedom to get out of the house, or you know, take a shower.

Not everyone has an easy time pumping, and I definitely didn’t once Baby M started solids. But, I didn’t have a problem with doing it. I would sit down for 20 minutes either during naptime or after my baby went to bed and just scroll on my phone and pump.

Realistically, I would’ve been sitting on the couch on my phone anyways, so it never felt like a big deal.

How to Build a Portable Breastfeeding Bin

I Rewarded Myself

One thing I don’t miss about breastfeeding is the sheer amount of calories I would have to consume to make enough milk and to feel satiated.

I would treat myself to my favorite high protein, high carb meals all the time!

I also purchased a few new sweaters and tops that were nursing friendly.

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I Followed other Breastfeeding Moms on Social Media

I followed @g1avasis, @marissathemilkmom, and @milkymamallc for inspiration! I didn’t know a lot of moms who nursed past a few months, so seeing other moms online really helped motivate me to keep going.

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I supplemented when necessary.

There was a point where I didn’t have hours to sit pumping the amount I needed to satisfy my baby. She was only getting one bottle a day, but once we started solids my supply had slowed down.

It seemed like a huge decision at the time, but we started supplementing with formula. My husband was able to give her a bottle and I wasn’t attached to the pump every spare moment.

Let me tell you, I have never felt so free!

We used Enfamil liquid before switching to the powder for our baby. My heart goes out to families that exclusively bottle feed – that stuff is expensive.

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We weaned when we were ready.

We weaned around 13 months. My baby was nursing for a minute or two when she woke up. She would pinch and poke me towards the end and it was becoming a very uncomfortable and frankly annoying experience.

One day, we just stopped. There was no “last time” or tears. It felt like a mutual decision between my baby and I.

I am so grateful for the bond we share and memories we made nursing. I’m proud of myself for sticking with it and finding a way to make it work.

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It’s been a relief to have my body back.

No, not in that way. My body will never come “back” because it never left. It has definitely changed and shows the wear of a pregnancy and birth and sleepless nights.

What I mean is it’s a relief to have my body back. I no longer have to monitor what I put in my body and worry about it affecting my baby. I’m not in pain if I haven’t fed or pumped in a few hours.

I had an instinctive moment of hesitation while drinking an extra large espresso drink, before remembering that the caffeine wasn’t going to affect anyone but me!

My plan for next time.

I have big pumping plans for baby #2! Next time, I plan on prioritizing pumping in the beginning so I can build a bigger stash for when we decide we’re done nursing. We are going to get a deep freezer so that the frozen milk lasts longer.

I also plan on trying to breastfeed longer. There are so many benefits of “extended” nursing and it was just so convenient and easy!


What’s your experience with breastfeeding?

Is it normalized where you live?
Let me know below!

O.

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5 Reasons We Chose a Vizsla as Our Family Dog

March 13, 2022

….and a puppy makes 5! I am so happy to announce that we have a new little Vizsla puppy at home! He is gentle, rambunctious and playful. He comes with two settings: insane and asleep.

When we decided to add a dog to our family, our next biggest decision was what breed would fit us best. I knew that I wanted a dog that was somewhat large, athletic, and wonderful with kids. As snuggly as my cat is, I was lonely on nights when my husband was out late.

After a great deal of research we found Vizslas and were absolutely in love with their wrinkly red faces and floppy ears.

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8 week old vizsla puppy wearing orange collar wrapped in blanket

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I must admit, the decision to get a dog was made when my 16-month-old was sleeping like a champ and was NOT in a purely “mama” phase. The week before we brought home our puppy she started teething again.

To prepare for the chaos, we got a puppy gate, put any small toys into my daughter’s room, and brought out the XL pack-and-play that we never used.

We also introduced her to other dogs and have taught her to respect animals from the get-go. Right now, that looks like teaching her to put her hand out for them to sniff first and using a gentle touch.

Was it an insane decision to get a puppy when we have a toddler? Probably. Would I recommend it? I’ll get back to you on that in six months.

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What did we consider before getting a dog?

Getting a dog is a decision that should not be made quickly and without a great deal of planning. The dog needs to fit into everyone’s life, including any future pregnancies or other life changes.

Dogs have different “jobs” that they have been bred to excel at. If you don’t have the time, space, or energy to “work” with them, then a dog is not for you.

  • Do we have the time for a dog?
  • Do we have the time and energy to train and housebreak a puppy?
  • How will a dog fit into our daily routine?
  • What will our daughter do with a puppy?
  • What will we do when we go away?
  • Who will be in charge of the different responsibilities of a dog (walking, cleaning up poop, training, etc.)?
  • Are we willing to be out with this dog in all types of weather (we are in a lovely bomb cyclone right now)?

Another big part of raising a cute little puppy dog is the cost. There are so many hidden costs to raising a dog, besides vet fees and food and toys. Some of the unexpected costs we had with our puppy was 

  • ($80) lattice to secure high points in our fence where the dog could slip through
  • ($150+) gas to drive the 13 hours to pick up our pup
  • ($150) hotel room on the way to pick him up
  • ($20) jumbo pack of paper towels
  • ($50) estimated cost on “puppy items” that he’ll grow out of, like a small harness, small collar, puppy pads, etc.

…and the list goes on! Making a puppy budget and setting aside money for unexpected costs can be helpful.

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What is a Vizsla?

Here is a summary on Vizslas from the American Kennel Club (click for reference):

The Vizsla is a versatile, red-coated gundog built for long days in the field. For centuries these rugged but elegant athletes have been the pride of Hungarian sportsmen, and their popularity in America increases with each passing year. The Vizsla is easily recognized by his sleek golden-rust coat. They can stand between 21 to 24 inches at the shoulder and are the picture of a lean, light-footed hunter’s companion. The long, silky ears frame a facial expression that is sensitive and loving around the house and intense when at work. As a hunter expected to work closely with humans, Vizslas form a tight bond with their owners and hate to be left alone. Athletes of many talents, Vizslas excel at various sports and activities. They are eager and graceful trotters of great stamina, making them ideal jogging or biking companions. An expert on the breed tells us, ‘If you don’t have the time to encourage this breed’s full use of its brain, you’re wasting a good dog.’

American Kennel Club, “About the Breed“
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Why did we choose a purebred dog?

It was our ethical responsibility to choose a breeder that was using best practices, breeding healthy dogs, and had the puppy’s best interest at heart.

Here’s why we went with a breeder rather than adopting:

  • We wanted a specific breed. There were only about 4 Vizsla mixes available in a 12 hour radius, and they were all adults.
  • We wanted a guarantee on size and temperament.
  • We wanted a puppy.
  • We wanted to know the dog’s parents and first environment.
  • We wanted a guarantee on health.

We did not want to support a puppy mill, pet store, or “backyard breeder”, which is why we went with a breeder that could give us an AKC limited registration Vizsla. 

We did a lot of research on choosing a breeder on the Vizsla subreddit, RedBirdDog blog, and the Vizsla club of America.

What breeds are similar to a Vizsla?

German Shorthair Pointers, Labrador Retrievers, English Pointers are similar in temperament, energy level, and size. We also considered the Rhodesian Ridgeback, Boxer, and Airedale Terrier.

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Are Vizslas hypoallergenic?

No, Vizslas are not hypoallergenic. They also do not have an undercoat. This makes them more susceptible to the cold. They also have less of a “dog” smell. Vizslas do not need to be bathed or groomed often and are very clean. Their coats are incredibly soft!

Something I noticed about my pup is that he dried off really quickly after coming in from the rain. It just took one or two towel rubs and he was dry!

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Vizsla Puppy 8 weeks old wearing orange collar sitting in bed

Why we chose a Vizsla as our family dog:

Temperament

Here is a summary from Hill’s Pet (click for reference):

Vizslas are active dogs, requiring a high level of physical activity, given their hunting history. They do not make good kennel dogs and prefer being with their owners. They are highly intelligent and need activities to keep them occupied to prevent destructive behavior such as chewing and digging.

Hill’s Pet, “Vizsla Dog Breed Information and Personality Traits”

Size

Vizslas are medium-large dogs that are lean and muscular. They require a 42” crate, which is huge. They need to be properly trained to avoid jumping up on humans or swiping food off of tables. Here are their size ranges.

Height Range

22-24 inches (male)

21-23 inches (female)

Weight Range

55-60 (male)

44-55 (female)

Activity Level

Vizslas are high energy! They need ample space to run around and need to be walked or run for an hour or more a day. They enjoy swimming, hiking, and agility as well. They are easy to train and need a lot of mental stimulation.

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Another name for the breed is a Velcro Vizsla! They want to be right on your lap and close to you at all times! They are supposedly excellent off of the leash, which was important to us.

We wanted something different.

Although I love all dogs and was drawn to doodles for their hypoallergenic qualities, we wanted something a little bit different.

So, there are the many reasons why we chose a Vizsla for our family dog!

I wanted to add an update as my Vizsla puppy approaches his 6 month birthday:

These pups are not for the faint of heart. My Bodhi is so naughty! He counter-surfs, eats everything in sight, and greets the world mouth-first. It has been a lot keeping a toddler and a puppy safe.

I have no problem saying that I wish I had waited until my daughter was older to get a puppy- I don’t think the breed matters. Puppies require constant supervision and dedication, which we are of course giving him. I’m sure I will feel differently in the future, once we turn this corner and he mellows out a little bit. But, from someone who is in it, let me say that having a puppy and a toddler is not the best idea.


Are you familiar with Vizslas?

Do you have a favorite dog breed? Did you grow up with a dog?

Let me know below!

O.

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