This post delves into how I manage a toddler and a high energy dog, my Vizsla, Bodhi on a daily basis!
“The baby was easier than a puppy,” is what I usually tell people when I hear them say they want a dog. We got a puppy when my baby was just over a year, and it has been an insane journey. I had a vision in my head of my kid walking beside her puppy, getting into adorable trouble together, and forming a lifelong bond. What I got was a puppy that nipped, barked, and made my life a nightmare while I tried to parent a young child.
We are finally in that place of peace and my dog is my daughters best friend. We didn’t get there without a lot of work, and it wasn’t as simple as my dog just growing out of behaviors. Below, I get into our process of creating calm with a busy toddler and a high energy dog!
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A little background…
My husband and I have always wanted a dog. The plan was always to wait until we were done having babies and get one when they were in elementary school.
Conversely, Baby M was a little over a year when I casually texted my husband “we should get a dog”.
His response?
“Okay!”.
And so we decided that we would get a dog, and started doing our research. We planned everything out perfectly. Obviously, we decided on a Vizsla, as we both had positive experiences with the breed growing up. We knew they were crazy, but it seemed like a good fit for our family.
2 months later we brough Bodhi home. He was a massive puppy, and is now clocking in at 75lbs of muscle. All he did was nip, nip, nip. Seriously. He destroyed every pair of sweatpants and leggings I owned. He would bark and nip and bark and nip and then fall asleep.
We worked really hard on his nipping, but trying to manage him and take care of a 14-month-old was so anxiety-inducing I developed the puppy blues. I was flooded with anxiety the moment I woke up each morning.
It wasn’t until I implemented some of the changes below that I began to see a difference in Bodhi and the way that I felt.
Benefits of Having a Toddler and a High Energy Dog
Having both a toddler and a dog under the same roof may seem like a handful, but for us, it’s been nothing short of incredible. Baby M and Bodhi have formed an unbreakable bond that warms our hearts every day. Here are some of the remarkable benefits we’ve experienced:
1. Lifelong Companionship: Baby M and Bodhi are more than just housemates; they’re best friends. Their companionship brings joy and comfort to each other’s lives. Whether it’s cuddling on the couch or running around in the backyard, their connection is a source of endless smiles.
2. Built-in Playmates: With Baby M and Bodhi, we never have to worry about finding playdates or entertainment. They keep each other engaged and active, which means less screen time and more outdoor adventures.
3. Lessons in Responsibility: Having a dog teaches Baby M valuable lessons about responsibility and empathy. She helps with feeding, grooming (hello, hose bath!), and even learns to respect Bodhi’s boundaries, fostering a sense of empathy and care. If he gets an upset stomach, she’ll rub his belly.
4. Emotional Development: Interacting with Bodhi has helped Baby M develop emotionally. She learns about patience, kindness, and the importance of non-verbal communication through her interactions with her furry friend.
5. Outdoor Adventures: Baby M’s energetic playtime with Bodhi encourages physical activity and exploration. It’s a win-win situation: they both burn off excess energy, leaving them (and us) more relaxed.
6. Unconditional Love: Bodhi’s unwavering love and loyalty provide Baby M with a constant source of comfort and security. He’s her protector and confidant, creating a safe and loving environment.
7. Lifelong Memories: Watching Baby M and Bodhi grow up together creates treasured memories that we’ll cherish forever. From their first meeting to their shared milestones, their journey is a testament to the power of the bond between children and dogs.
In our household, the benefits of having a toddler and a dog are abundant, and we wouldn’t have it any other way. Baby M and Bodhi’s friendship is a reminder that the chaos, laughter, and love they bring into our lives are worth every moment.
Enforced Naps
In the world of parenting a toddler and managing a high-energy dog, finding moments of calm can feel like a rare treasure. That’s where the concept of “enforced naps” comes into play, and for us, it’s been an absolute game-changer.
But what exactly are enforced naps, and how can they benefit your household?
Enforced naps are structured rest periods designed for both your toddler and your four-legged friend. In the case of our Vizsla, Bodhi, it was all about crate naps.
What Are Enforced Crate Naps for Dogs?
For Bodhi, crate naps involve spending a designated amount of time in his crate during the day. This isn’t punishment; it’s an opportunity for him to unwind and recharge. Crate training has taught him that his crate is a safe and comfortable space, making it the ideal spot for some downtime.
How Are They Beneficial?
Enforced crate naps offer several key benefits:
- Preventing Overstimulation: High-energy dogs like Vizslas can easily become overstimulated, leading to unruly behavior. Enforced crate naps provide a structured break, reducing excitement levels and preventing over-exhaustion.
- Creating Routine: Toddlers thrive on routine, and the same goes for dogs. Enforced naps establish a structured daily schedule that helps both Baby M and Bodhi know what to expect.
- Preventing Napping Tantrums: Just like toddlers, dogs can get cranky when they’re tired. Enforced naps ensure Bodhi gets the rest he needs, reducing the chances of crankiness or restlessness.
- Promoting Safety: When Baby M is active, it’s essential to ensure she and Bodhi interact safely. Enforced crate naps provide a break when direct supervision might not be possible.
- Encouraging Independence: Crate naps encourage Bodhi to self-soothe and relax on his own. This fosters independence and confidence, making him a well-adjusted family member. Giving him filled Kong in his crate helps too!
- Quality Time: Enforced naps allow us to spend quality one-on-one time with Baby M. During these periods, she gets our undivided attention for play and learning.
Incorporating enforced naps, especially crate naps for our high-energy dog, has helped maintain a sense of order and balance in our household. It’s a tool that ensures both Baby M and Bodhi get the rest they need, so they can be at their best when they’re awake.
Exercise and Playtime
Structured Play Sessions: Our day often starts with structured play sessions. We engage in interactive games with both Baby M and Bodhi, promoting bonding and physical activity. Whether it’s a game of fetch in the backyard or a playful round of peek-a-boo indoors, these sessions kickstart the day on a positive note.
Outdoor Adventures: Regular outdoor excursions are a must. We’ve found that Baby M and Bodhi are the happiest when they’re exploring nature together. From nature walks to trips to the park, these outings provide exercise, fresh air, and a chance for both to discover the world around them.
The Power of Routine: Consistency is key. We’ve established a daily exercise routine that caters to both our toddler’s need for active play and Bodhi’s requirement for physical stimulation. These scheduled play breaks keep boredom at bay.
Interactive Toys: Investing in interactive toys has been a game-changer. These toys engage both Baby M and Bodhi’s minds and bodies. It’s a win-win situation: Baby M learns problem-solving skills, and Bodhi gets a mental workout.
Safety First: Safety is paramount during playtime. We ensure that Baby M and Bodhi are always under close supervision to prevent any accidental roughhousing. This allows them to enjoy playtime without unnecessary risks.
Downtime is Just as Important: As much as we emphasize exercise, we also value downtime. After active play sessions, both Baby M and Bodhi need time to rest and recuperate. Quiet moments with books or cozy naps are essential for recharging.
Creating a Peaceful Home
Dual activities
Something that continues to save my sanity is giving my toddler and my dog an “activity” at the same time so I can get stuff done. An example of this would be giving Bodhi a filled KONG on his bed, while Baby M does at art project at the table. 5 minutes of set up for 20 minutes of peace and quiet!
Everyone needs a “job”…
“Give him a job and he will be a good boy“. That’s what my vet told me in the early days. We are still experimenting with scent training, but Bodhi is our “helper” outside when we garden. He is also very protective over our house and will patrol the yard, sticking his nose under the fence when people walk by.
Building a Confident Vizsla
Recently, we have stopped crating Bodhi at night. He is SO much calmer. I believe it’s that he is more confident because of this. Another thing we do to boost his confidence is bring him on car rides. He loves doing Target pick up orders with me!
Here are some other ways to build confidence in a V!
- Use Positive Reinforcement for good behavior.
- Ensure Socialization with people, animals, and various environments.
- Consistent and Positive Training sessions.
- Provide regular Exercise to burn energy and boost confidence.
- Offer Mental Stimulation through interactive games and training.
- Establish a Structured Routine for security.
- Gradually introduce new experiences through Desensitization.
- Teach Obedience Commands for self-control.
- Avoid harsh Punishment that can erode confidence.
- Arrange positive Social Interactions with other dogs.
- Be a confident and consistent Leader.
- Practice patience and provide plenty of Time and Support.
What classifies a high energy dog?
A high-energy dog is one that requires a substantial amount of physical and mental activity to stay content. These dogs typically exhibit restlessness, eagerness to play, and a need for regular exercise and stimulation.
High-energy breeds often include working dogs, sporting breeds, and some terriers. If you’re not prepared to meet their activity needs (both physical and mental), these dogs can become bored, restless, and may engage in destructive behaviors.
Here are some of the top high energy breeds:
- Border Collie
- Australian Shepherd
- Vizsla
- Siberian Husky
- Jack Russell Terrier
- Labrador Retriever
- Belgian Malinois
- Weimaraner
- Dalmatian
- Pointer (German Shorthaired Pointer)
- Rhodesian Ridgeback
- Boxer
- Husky
- English Springer Spaniel
- Irish Setter
Outdoor Toys for Toddlers
I want to include some of our outdoor staples! We are participating in the 1,000 Hours Outside challenge, so we are outside rain or shine, snow or sleet!
Did you have a dog when you were a kid? Would you choose to get one for your kids, if you could go back in time?
Let me know below!
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